{"id":23198,"date":"2021-10-26T08:00:38","date_gmt":"2021-10-26T08:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.poly.com\/?p=23198"},"modified":"2021-10-26T15:27:30","modified_gmt":"2021-10-26T15:27:30","slug":"family-friends-and-what-makes-a-good-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.poly.com\/family-friends-and-what-makes-a-good-day\/","title":{"rendered":"Family, Friends, and What Makes a Good Day"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was at work when I got the call confirming I had breast cancer. I really expected to be told it was a false alarm, considering it was my first mammogram. My aunt had been diagnosed a few months earlier, first case in the family, which moved up the timeline of when I needed to be examined. The initial mammogram resulted in an ultrasound followed by a biopsy. The biopsy results came back negative! Phew, internally, I grumbled about all these additional tests that made me panic for no reason.<\/p>\n

But then\u2026I got a call. The radiologist didn\u2019t agree with the pathologist\u2019s findings, and I needed a second biopsy. What?! I called my primary doctor for input on this radiologist and how a second biopsy could find something. I was told this was extremely unusual, but the radiologist was well respected \u2013 and I needed the second biopsy. After, the radiologist called me himself. I did have cancer. I walked out of work stunned.<\/p>\n

I was told repeatedly that it was good the radiologist questioned the initial results. If another year had gone by before my next mammogram, the doctors would be having very different conversations with me. I was also told how, even 10 years ago, if I had received the same diagnosis (HER2 positive), it would have been a much more dire prognosis. Oh, the advances that technology made!<\/p>\n

Eventually, I began learning that \u2018small wins\u2019 are what make a good day. If I wanted, I could have a very pessimistic, negative attitude because I still had cancer, or I could embrace the small victories. It was difficult for me to lose my independence and accept help. I had a tough time coming to terms with my mother doing my laundry, others cooking and cleaning for me as well as being chauffeured around.<\/p>\n

I distinctly remember that my first chemo treatment was on Halloween. The oncology department was decorated. I was scared – how would I feel, what would it be like? Then, my sister showed up. She said, \u201cThat\u2019s what family is for. Family doesn\u2019t let family do things like this alone!\u201d We played cards and watched the activity on the floor.<\/p>\n

Twice a week for three months, my sister drove three hours, round trip, to pick me up after chemo and take me to my parents\u2019 house. She would make the same trip five days later to take me back to Santa Cruz for my weekly doctor appointments and the next chemo session. My aunt, weekly, sent me a card and little gifts counting down how many chemo sessions I had left.<\/p>\n

Chemo was followed by radiation five days a week for six weeks. Friends drove me every day to radiation at seven in the morning. I told one person when my radiation was and, in less than 48 hours, all the slots on my care calendar were filled. For three months, people dropped off food at my house every week. These were the few times I saw friends, reminding me a little bit of my \u2018normal\u2019 life. These small things marked good days.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m approaching the five-year anniversary of my last treatment. I get mammograms and body scans annually. I will always fear that cancer might come back. Still, there is comfort in knowing I\u2019m not really in it alone, and, if necessary, I could make it through again \u2013 especially with the support of my family and friends. October is Breast Cancer Awareness month, and I am very pleased that Poly is joining the fight.<\/p>\n

Join the Fight with Pink Poly Sync 20 Speakerphone<\/strong><\/h4>\n

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Spread the word about the Pink Poly Sync 20 to help fight breast cancer! It is available today at Poly.com<\/span><\/a> or Amazon<\/span>.<\/a><\/p>\n

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